15 Dirty Sex Games and Talk for Married Couples

Raunchy erotic games and talk to turn up the heat in the bedroom

By Sophia R
15 Dirty Sex Games and Talk for Married Couples

Turn him on with sex games and talk

Having a routinary sex life in a married couple can lead to monotony and boredom easily.  Over the years, the routine can wear out and permanently damage intimacy. Nobody doubts that having a good sex life as a couple improves the satisfaction of the relationship as a whole. The connection that is created between the two people in the intimate moments helps to overcome many difficult moments and situations that the couple might be going through. As it is very important for these reasons, sex helps us in many other ways. You probably don't know the effects it actually has on your health:
 

  •  It helps to reduce stress.
  • Rejuvenates and helps the couple feel younger.
  • Lengthens life.
  • Improves cardiovascular health.
  • It improves self-esteem and mood by releasing endorphins.
  • It helps to have a stronger immune system.

For all of these reasons, it is important that you look for ways to rekindle the fire in the relationship and in your intimacy. Remember: good sex life= better relationship. We will show you some games and talks that will definitely do the trick in yours. 

5 Sex Games to Kickstart Date Night

As all married people might know, sexual relationships are really pleasurable, but as the time in the couple's relationship passes and the monotony gains ground, some let the flame of passion go out, making it way less fun as we said before. 

Now, what are the best ways to lit that fire and start enjoying the sex as you did when you two were just dating? The games are the answer, my friend! We have gathered the best 5 sex games to kick start date night and end up as happy and satisfied as ever: 

1. Temperature

 One of the classic games in bed is to play with the sensations of our body with temperature. To do this you simply need to grab an ice cube or a hot drink. You can apply ice directly on the body of your husband or wife or you can put it in your mouth for a bit (same with the hot drink) so that when practicing oral sex, kissing or licking them the sensations are different thanks to the cold or hot tongue. Things will get real hot quickly!

2. Flavors

If the temperature sensations can be very pleasant, so can the flavors. There is nothing better than being with the person you love and also delighting the palate with chocolate, strawberries or ice cream. Of course, every person likes different things, although some classics are anointing body parts with chocolate and cleaning them with the tongue. You can also eat strawberries and whipped cream in an erotic way. The important thing is not to use your hands but everything else. It can't really better than food and sex at the same time!

3. Paper game

This game here can be very erotic and excite your senses like no other. You have to take two jars (for each of the two) in which you will put a series of pieces of paper. Write one verb that has to do with sexual and exciting acts for each paper, for example, sucking, licking, biting, etc. In the other jar, put pieces of paper with written body parts. The combination of the two pieces of paper will tell you what you should do to your partner and where. You can even discover some amazing spots with this game!

4. Sexual time bomb

The sexual time bomb is a sex game that will make you both go crazy. It is very simple, it just consists of taking a clock and setting a time interval in which it is not allowed to penetrate. If, for example, the time without penetration is 20 minutes, only caresses, kisses, bites, etc. are allowed until the stipulated time has passed. It is crazy how it will get you both going!

5. Roleplaying

The famous 'role-playing', is an excellent option to make fantasies come true and rekindle the fire in the relationship. In these games, the fantasies of being another person, with another profession and personality are fulfilled. Those secret moments of desire are revealed between the couple. The scene you both decide to represent will be up to the imagination of the participants, which is a great way to fulfill hidden kinks. 
 

The most common roles involve a difference of power such as teacher/student, nurse / patient, officer/prisoner. However, there can be very personal and specific fantasies. It is basically up to you two, so choose something good!

10 complementary sex talks to boost the foreplay

In addition to seeing and feeling during sex and foreplay, there is actually another sense than can complement the series of reactions very well: hearing. Having your husband or wife talk dirty to you or vice versa can actually boost the intercourse in a way you would never think it could. It will actually get you both going and you can even use it to have some sparks during sex again. 

Yes, I know dirty talking actually isn't that easy. Many people struggle a lot about how to do so and the right things to say, etc. That is why we will now tell you 10 complementary sex talks to boost the foreplay and in that way, the sex, between you two:

Domineering

Talking dirty in a domineering way will position you as the doer and dominant one during any kind of sex.  You will be the one in charge of doing most of the questioning and commanding. If this is your usual role, or just for the night, use these dirty talks and see how they get you and your submissive extremely hot:

1. Actions

One way to domineeringly talk dirty is by asking for actions with actions and words at the same time. What I mean by this is that you can say things like: " touch me here" or " touch my (body part)"  at the same time as you grab their hand and put it there. You will inmediatly get pleased just the way you wanted. 

2. Dirty talk on normal activities

You can also dirty talk during normal everyday activities to anticipate sex even more. For example: if you are running errands together, say something like: " now we have to get some groceries, gas up the car, and when we get home you will (verb) my (body part). These unexpected little things will make him or her goes crazy at the spot, no matter where you are. 

3. possessive talk

Turning dirty talk into a little possessive talk can also be a great way for domineering dirty talk. Telling your husband or wife things like: " nobody will ever make love to you as I do" or " your (body part) is only mine" will make you both feel very passionate and make the sex better overall. Many people get really turned on by possessiveness, so it is worth a try.

4. Strong words

Domineering dirty talk is also characterized by being hard-core, which means that it involves the use of vulgar and stronger words. Many people love when their partner talks explicitly and very dirty in bed. We will leave the examples up to you for obvious reasons!

5. Submissive names

5. Using submissive names for the other person is also a way to show domineering through dirty talk. Calling them things like " baby", "dirty slut" "hore" or any other harsh sexual word is a kink many people swear by, but remember, do it only if your partner agrees on being called these names, as it can be offensive for some people. 

Submissive

On the other side, talking dirty in a submissive way will give you the role of the obedient and the one that has to please during sex. You will be in charge of asking for commands and following them. Dirty talk can get this role a much sexier attitude which will make the sex crazy good for both of you. Use these phrases and see what I am talking about for yourself:

6. Thank them

Thanking him or her and letting them know how you are feeling during sex with words is a great way to dirty talk submissively. Phrases like: " I like it right there" or " that feels really good" are ways of doing so. 

7. Commands

Another way to do this is by asking them for commands or things they want you to do to them. For example, say something like: " what do you want me to do to you" or " I will let you do (verb) to me" are great ways to show him that you are willing to please them as they want. 

8. Be submissive

You can also say things that show that you are submissive to him or her with phrases like: " I am only yours", " I love the way only you can make me feel" or " you make me wet or hard". 

9. Names

Calling him or her names like: " daddy", "mister" "misses" "master" will make them go crazy as they will feel even more power over you, which is someting many people find as a turn on. 

10. Be very vocal

 Dirty talking is not only done with words. What better way to express submission and pleasure than by screaming and being very vocal with sounds and moans. This is one of the sexiest and most appealing ways you could do so!

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Summary

I assure you that your sex life during the marriage will no longer be that boring, monotonous one you are so used to after you try any of these games or talks. Your sexual relationship and flame will be as lit as ever, and you will almost feel you are back to the times when you were young and dating. It will be a new era for your marriage. You are welcome!

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