Tips and Advice to A Satisfying Make-Out Session

Love is an ecstatic emotion and making out is just one of the many ways to let your partner know that you are totally crazy about them. The tender caresses, the desperate smooches and the affectionate embraces are more than just an expression of adoration; they are actually helpful for your mental and physical well-being. There is nothing that a steamy episode of intimacy cannot fix. 

However, it isn’t a question of how many times you make out per day or every week, but it is the session that counts the most that is of actual importance. Did the affection satiate your and your partner’s mind, body and soul? Read on to learn more about the anatomy of a holistic make out session. 

For each one of us, the source of our wildest fantasies about love happens to be the shows that we binge on and our absolute favourite rom-coms. In real life, there won’t be any perfectly coordinated dancers appearing out of the blue to serenade our partner with us, you mostly would have to do all of it on your own. 

Setting the mood and making out isn’t as easy as depicted in the movies. It needs a lot of effort on your part; you need to arrange the room or the car yourself, you have to freshen up your breath more often and more thoroughly, you have to understand that this is not a movie and therefore, you should always be ready for some imperfections in the plan.  

But, there is one thing that we are sure of, you can have a time as good as or even better than your favourite characters by ascertaining that you and your partner are completely comfortable with one another. The second important aspect is sharing a mutual understanding of what might follow after a few hours of Netflix and chill. Consent is of utmost importance. While the abrupt meeting of lips in a movie look cute, acting on an impulse in real life without your partner having the slightest idea of what is on your mind can be more of a turn-off.  

To mimic the hot chemistry in the romantic movie you and your partner completely love to watch over and over again, read the following tips and prepare to experience a make out session that is so hot that it will singe on for a long time.  

Engaging in foreplays and episodes of intimacy that may or may not lead to sex can boost mood. If your partner had a long day at work or if their boss was being an absolute jerk to them, you can always light up your room with candles, spray it with lavender and have an amazing cloths-on make out session that will fight away your darling’s Monday blues with the release of endorphins. 

Kissing, hugging, cuddling and feeling one another on a regular basis can enhance your relationship. These acts of pure love make your partner feel special. While we have routine physical contact with our friends and family, such as shaking of hands and platonic embraces, making out is something that is restricted to you two as a couple. 

Women do take a lot of time to get as turned-on as men when it comes to making love. Making out is foreplay to the actual foreplay. You could get busy kissing your partner in your car, with the most sensual tongue action right before you drop them off at their place. Use your hands, feel their skin heat up underneath your touch and brush their hair while your lips are locked. You would be able to sense their alacrity in the way they respond to your advances, setting the stage for the best sex ever.  

You have had a crush on someone hot for a long time and you are a couple of dates into the beginning of something truly exciting, but you are curious if they are hot in bed too? Making out with them, once you two are comfortable enough of course, is one of the most fool-proof ways to find out. The way they approach to kiss you, the quality of their touch and their eagerness can provide you with enough evidence to continue your investigation in their apartment, or just stop right there and get rid of the idea.  

The fact that making out is fun is reason enough for you to do it almost every time there is a chance. Tomorrow is uncertain, but what you have with your partner right now is truly something in your control and you should cherish it by showing them a love that sweeps them off their feet. Kiss them there and then, kiss them as hard as you can and show them how happy you are for being nowhere else but in the safe haven of their arms.  

There would be days when you would have to stay apart from your lover. Those are the days when all the kisses and make outs would come back to rescue you two from the sadness and give you a reason to be more patient while distance acts as a hindrance. The way their lips fitted perfectly in yours and the way your body welcomed theirs would help you get through the toughest of times, as you would know what the fruit of patience tastes like. 

Say hello to your partner’s bacteria while you kiss them. The transfer introduces a different species of microorganisms into your body, helping it produce antibodies against them, causing your immunity to level up. Additionally, the increased salivary production during a passionate kiss improves saliva’s flushing action in the cleansable areas of the dentition, keeping caries and the subsequent cavities at bay.  

Feeling guilty about eating a large hamburger? Kiss your partner for a long time to burn all the excessive calories without setting foot in the gym. If you meet your partner to make out often, you could cut a few minutes from the long hours that you spend working out as you expend a considerable amount of energy when you kiss. This tactic should literally be called kissing the fat away.  

The most important aspect of making out in the car is to make sure that your partner is comfortable with the idea and approves of it. There is a considerable chance that people might look at you and your darling eerily as you close your eyes shut to indulge in a steamy kiss. If you two don’t care about what the world thinks, go ahead, put the gear in neutral and roll over on their side. 

Music is a mood-setter. If there is a track that you and your partner find sexy, put it on a loop to get rid of the silence and pave a path for a sultry make out session in the car. 

Safety first! This especially stands true for making out in the car. We say, don’t even trust the auto-pilot if the traffic is dense. But you and your lover just cannot wait, park your car in a safe spot, preferably under some shade if it is sunny on that day, turn the engine off and enjoy your time on the road.  

Making out is inevitably going to make you and your baby sweat like a pig. Don’t take your chances here, turn the AC on if it is too hot or lower down the heat if it is cold, to guarantee you two a seamless session without any discomfort. 

If any one of you two is not a big fan of PDA, make sure that you cover the windows of the car if you can before you lock your lips. 

There are a lot of interferences if you two are in the front seat, depending upon the type of car you are in. If you two opt to be in the same seat, ensure that the transition is undertaken without stepping on or breaking something crucial, such as the gear or the hand brake. Also make sure that you don’t end up kicking the controls to the indicators and the wipers, this can confuse any incoming traffic. Use cushions if you have them.  

Don’t invite your partner over if all the toddlers in your family are to stay the night at your place. If your parents are at home and might knock the door to your room at least a few hundred times to make sure that you don’t transgress, it is better to choose another spot. Whatever you do, don’t let anyone or anything interrupt you two. 

Anything that will help keep you hydrated throughout the time should work. A soda, some water or even milk if you are a fan would do. Many people get hungry after a passionate make-out session; therefore, keep munchies within your reach. 

If there is some particular attire that you know would hit the right chords in your partner’s heart, go for it. Make sure that you maintain an appeal without overdoing it. If you wish, ask your partner what they would prefer you to wear, to give them an idea about what you have on your mind for the night. The kiss wouldn’t be much of a surprise this way.  

Some people like it lit and others like it dim; alter the aura based on how you and your partner love it. Scented candles are an option too, which make the entire setting look straight out of a movie, while making the area smell seductively great. 

Maintain moisturized lips and a breath that doesn’t drive your partner off. In a long-term relationship, these aspects don’t matter a lot, but it is always better to be prepared. A chewing gum, a dash of toothpaste and Vaseline should be available, in case any one of you two need a quick freshening up.  

For some people, a cluttered area might be a bit too distracting to focus on the real thing at hand. If you are inviting them over, organize all your belongings and keep the couch and/or the bed clean for you two to sink in comfortably. Change the sheets if you can.  

Show your partner that they are the best thing that ever happened to you by making-out regularly. Kissing is one activity that never needs an excuse, and if you are two consenting adults who can have a go at it, let the world around you blur and just lose yourself in the moment your lips meet your partner’s. 

Love is the purest of all emotions and there should be no shame in its expression. Make out the second you think is the time, whether you are in the car or at home, and make it even better by following the tips provided above.