5 Expert Advice on how to Win your Wife back fast

You are living a fairytale life that your married friends envy and bachelors wish to have and out of nowhere life throws you a lemon; a pretty big and bitter one. You and your wife are getting separated. Sometimes separation can be an expected and foreseen event and at others, it may come unexpectedly. Whether it is expected or took you by surprise; separation is painful. If you both knew that you were going towards a point where your paths were separating, one or both of you might have done something to avoid this unfortunate event but sometimes no matter what you do; separation is inevitable. 
 

Living with the thought of a life without your life partner is very difficult. It is utterly natural to think about all the good things that you shared and planned together. The vows that you took and plans you made would be painful to look back to. But if you love your wife and are determined to get her back even after separation, here is what you should do:

Trying now is better than regretting later. If you love her, do not stop trying. First thing you should not give up is hope. A hope to get back together and spend a life you always imagined and planned. You only lose when you think you have lost. Try any and everything. Send her flowers, chocolates, cards with love notes, anything that she loves. Keep reminding her of the things she is going to miss without you in her life. Make her remember those intimate moments and spark of love that you two shared. 
Here are a few steps to help you remain on track:
 

• If you really want to win your wife back after separation, you need to understand what went wrong between you two. A conscious understanding of the contributing factors will help efficiently resolve the issue.

• Once you understand the reason, start working towards resolving the issues. Work on your flaws and make amendments. 

•  Never underestimate the power of love. It is love that brought you together in the first place and love will bring her back to you; have faith. 

• Be realistic. There are things that you can control and some that you cannot control. Setting realistic goals may take time but will get you there eventually.  

Is it even possible? Wanting your wife back after finding her guilty of cheating is nearly impossible but not in all cases. The only case where you would want your wife even after you have found her cheating on you is if you love her immensely and the mere thought of living without her breaks your heart. It would be tricky to bring her back but not impossible. Here is how

Sometimes, after getting married, you turn into a husband and stop being a lover. The person she fell in love with faded away due to workload and other domestic responsibilities. Maybe she wants a lover more than a husband; so be one for her. Become one she is looking for in other men; a lover and an admirer. Play the old games, the ones that brought you two together, the ones that you played to win her heart, the ones she loved, ones that you stopped playing.    
 

Sometimes conflicts and differences bring you on the verge of divorce. It doesn’t necessarily mean that you fell out of love, sometimes things get so complicated that divorce seems like the only option. 
While the divorce is being processed, you may experience two kinds of emotional reactions: relief or heartache. If the emotional reaction is a relief, it means the relationship was beyond mending and you are finally getting out of the relationship which became more torturous with every passing day. But if it is heartache that you feel, it definitely means that you don’t want this relationship to end. Although circumstances have brought you to this break-up if given a chance you would do whatever it takes to reverse it.
Here is a bit of expert advice on how to win your wife back during divorce.

Whether you have tried or even considered it yet or not, counseling can have a positive impact on the way you are looking at each other and your relationship. If you were not on board with her about the idea of consulting a marriage counselor, now is the time. It will not only make her realize that you have changed but also that you value her advice. Sometimes the things you didn’t think matter, matters the most. The counselor will help you work on the weaknesses and know your strengths. Working together as a couple will help you two get back on track quickly and easily.

You might have watched movies, where wife leaves her loving and caring husband for another man and wondered, is it even possible until the day you saw your wife with another man. 
If she has decided to part ways with you just because you failed to make her happy; the situation can be reversed with a change in behavior. Become the person she wants you to be and get her back in your life. Sounds pretty easy but isn’t if she has fallen in love with another man. How painful? You love her and for some reason, she doesn’t love you back, not anymore. 
Winning your wife back from another man would be easier but would you be able to make her love you again? Yes! And this is how:

• It would be difficult to make her realize that she is making a big mistake leaving you for another man but if you have learnt from your mistakes and are ready to make amends; it would be a matter of few weeks maybe.

• You should realize that you cannot make it happen overnight, of course, so be patient. 

• The conversation is the key, so keep in touch without making her feel uncomfortable.

• Do apologize and mean it. No matter how strongly you believe that it was her fault all along but take responsibility for your actions and offer a heartfelt apology.

• Be friends with her, after all this how you started in the first place and if you did not; now is a good time. 

• Do not hold a grudge as it would take you nowhere. 

Keynote: You can win her back only if she still loves you and has some feelings for you. If she has fallen out of love, no matter how hard you try, you won’t be able to bring her back.        
 

If therapy isn’t your thing and you want to keep your stuff to yourself, books offer great solace. If you are getting signals that your wife is drifting away or you now more share a relationship that you vowed, buy any of these books and read what experts have to say in situations like these.

Books offer great pieces of advice. Written by experts, on various life situations, books can turn your life upside down. It is just a matter of time. Believe me 

Written by Gary Smalley, Winning your wife back before its too late is a great read for all those who are going through separation and divorce. If you have started reading it well in time, you might avoid the entire breakup scenario. The game plan discussed in the book comprises of the following key points:
•    What are "penalty flags"
•    Respect your wife 
•    Develop unconditional love
•    Change yourself
•    Join a support group  
True stories of real people will not only help you relate but also find working solutions to correct your situation.
 

Gary Chapman,  #1 New York Times bestselling author in his book When Sorry Isn't Enough: Making Things Right with Those You Love discusses why saying sorry isn’t enough. The book will help you in keeping your cool in the most heated arguments in order to strengthen precious relationships. 
 

Full of practical wisdom and grace as reviewed by a customer, 7 Ways to Be Her Hero: The One Your Wife Has Been Waiting For is a witty take of Doug Fields on a serious matter. 7 working solutions to transform marriage, this book should be in the bookshelf of every home. 

Marriage brings two people together in the most divine of all relationships. Husband and wife not just share their lives; they share souls as well that’s why sometimes they are called soul mates. If unfortunately, you have not found your soul mate in your wife, you are meant to part ways sooner or later. 

Richard Bach said: “If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were.”

Sometimes setting free is difficult and in those times getting expert advice and help is a smart and wise choice. May you find solace in pieces of advice shared in this article.