Find Out The Advantages And Benefits Of Being Single

What most single people enjoys and hates about being single

By Diana N.
Find Out The Advantages And Benefits Of Being Single

Benefits Of A Single Man

Being single does not necessarily mean that you are alone as most people usually think that you can have people in your life even when you are single. There are a lot of benefits that are associated with being a single man and some of them include:

1. You get to focus on your career

Relationships are very demanding which is why they are one of the biggest roadblocks to successful careers. When you are in a relationship there are many things that you cannot be able to do especially if they will cause your relationship to be unstable. You cannot be able to take a job that is far from your home for example. Being single frees you from all the inconveniences making you more productive and aggressive resulting in a better career path.

2. You are your own boss

Marriage is all about making sacrifices and adjustments which can be tiring at times. When you are single you do not have anybody to compromise for meaning that you do what you want all the time. This is refreshing as you are the one holding all the cards.

3. You have more money

Men who are in a relationship usually have a lot of expenses as they have to take care of their partners. Maintaining a relationship is also very expensive as it involves buying gifts, going to the movies once in a while, buying gifts such as flowers and jewelry, and even dinners. When you are single you only take care of your expenses which are much less and this saves you money.

4. You sleep better

This might sound absurd but it’s true. Single men usually have better sleep than those in a relationship. Being in a relationship involves lots of planning and daily routines which are tiring and sad. Sharing a bed with someone else all the time can also lead to loss of sleep as they might be snoring or they dominating the whole bed. When you are single you can sleep anyhow you feel like without worrying about what another person might feel about it.

5. Leads to an amazing social life

For a relationship to be successful, you have to make your partner your best friend; meaning that you have to spend most of your free time with them. This is, however, not the case when you are single as you are free as a bird. You can hang out with your friends and go out to meet new people.

Disadvantages Of A Single Man

As fun as being single can be, it has its fair share of disadvantages and some of them are as follows:

1. Loneliness

This is without a doubt the number one con of being single. Even with all the baggage that comes with relationships, one thing that’s for sure is that you have someone by your side at all times and this means a lot. When you are single, you don’t have anyone special by your side to share special moments with or even cuddle with, giving loneliness a chance to sneak into your life.

2. You feel left out

This is one of those things you cannot avoid especially if your friends are all in successful relationships. Being around such friends makes you feel as if you are the odd one out as conversations between such groups usually evolve around relationships making it more difficult for you.

3. Lack of intimacy

One of the benefits of being in a relationship is that sex and romance is never an issue as you always have someone who you love and cares about you to turn to. This is something that is hard to find when you are single as even though you might have plenty of sex, the romance will not be there.

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Benefits Of A Single Woman

Women are more affected by being single than men as society expects a lot from them. This, however, does not mean that women cannot have a great time when they are single. The following are some of the pros of being a single woman:

1. You spend more time with your family and friends

When you are in a relationship, you spend most of your time with your partner meaning that you lose touch with most of the girls you were close to before you got into the relationship. Having close friends who love you for who you are is amazing and being single allows you to welcome them back into your life. Having a lot of friends makes life enjoyable as you once again get the chance to do fun and crazy things.

2. You dress the way you like

When you are in a relationship you dress the way your partner approves and this is different when you are single as you don’t have anybody to please but yourself. Being single allows you to wear what you are comfortable with even if it’s not sexy or attractive.

3. No jealousy

Excessive jealousy is one of the things that negatively affect relationships. There are a lot of things which you cannot do when you are seeing someone as it will lead to jealousy which is not healthy. But things change if you are single as you can be around male friends and even flirt without worrying what someone else feels about it.

4. You make your life anything you want it to be

Being single is empowering as you have the freedom to live your dreams and shape your life the way you want. This is not possible when you are in a relationship as you have to consider what your partner feels about the changes. This is one of the best things you can do for yourself when you are single.

5. You get to know yourself

There is no better chance of discovering who you really are than when you are single. When women are in relationships, they are mostly defined by the roles that they play and this is not the case for single women. When you are single you get to know things that you like and those that you don’t.

Disadvantages Of A Single Woman

1. You have no one to share your life with

This is one of the saddest parts of being a single woman as no matter how successful you are, you have no one special to enjoy and celebrate that success with. When you are in a relationship you have someone who is always happy and there for you.

2. There is a lot of pressure to settle down

The society places a lot of pressure on women when it comes to settling down, unlike men who are free to settle whenever they feel like. Single women usually have a lot of explaining to do to their family and friends about why they are still single as the society expects them to settle down and have children before it’s too late.

3. There is no one to help you

Men are stronger than women which is why they are able to do more difficult jobs. When you are in a relationship, life is easier as you have someone to help you. Fixing things around the house, for example, is always a man’s job. As a single woman, you will have no one to help you with such duties for free.

Coping With Being Single

For those who are just coming from a long relationship, being single is really hard as you have a lot of adjusting to do. So, how exactly do you cope with being single? The following are some of the things you should do for you to successfully deal with being single:

Cultivating a positive mindset

This should be your first step. You should realize that being in a relationship is not what makes you a better person and this will enable you to start enjoying everything good that comes with being single.  

Remodeling your identity

Instead of allowing being single to be the significant aspect of your whole existence, you should let it be just a part of it. In order for you to remodel your identity, you have to look at things from a different and a more flexible angle.

Meeting new people

Meeting new people who share the same values as you is an amazing way of coping with being single as it increases your self-esteem and keeps your mind occupied. One easy way of meeting new people is by joining an online community.

Conclusion

Being single is fun and come with a lot of freedom but it’s also very challenging. The society is not kind to single people and this is why you should know that it’s okay being single. You should never be in a relationship for the sake of it or in order to fit in. Instead of being sad and miserable, take that opportunity and build yourself a great life and have fun while at it.

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